Toxic relationships are like curse. There is no cure for them and they will only harm you. It’s true that being in a toxic relationship is hard and it’s not even easy to get out of them. When your partner is manipulative and deceives you time and again then there is no point in being with them.
You will only end up getting hurt and devastated. I think there are clear signs as to what a toxic relationship is and we need not elaborate that. But we do need to find a very subtle and smart way to get out of one. That’s why we have brought you the deal breakers.
Check them out!
1. They hurt you physically
It’s an obvious sign that if they hurt you physically then your relationship is absolutely doomed. You need to find your way out of it instead of tolerating the abuse. If you will keep tolerating it then they would think that it’s okay to hurt you.
2. They make you feel bad about yourself
This fall in the verbal abuse category. In this, your partner will make you feel bad about yourself. They will hurt your feelings and will criticize pretty much everything you do.
3. They cheat on you
If there is frequent infidelity in your relationship then that means he doesn’t respect you at all. All you are for him is a pawn which he simply using for his own selfish reasons. Never let this happen to yourself.
4. They are careless with people you love
Is your partner not treating your loved ones with love and care? If yes, then I think it’s high time to reconsider this relationship. A person’s behavior towards animals and weaker humans shows what kind of a person they are.
5. They lie
Lying is equivalent to no trust and no honesty. If your partner is lying to his colleagues or you then I think you know what you need to do.
6. They guilt trip you
They will try to guilt trip into doing their biddings. They would manipulate you time and again and will get their work done. It’s not good as it clearly shows that they are only using you.
7. You don’t like yourself around them
A relationship and a good partner brings the best out of you. They never belittle you for anything. But if your partner is doing that and you kinda hate yourself when you are with them then it’s time to move out and move on with this relationship.
8. They make you doubt yourself
If you are good at something and still you doubt that you are not, because of something your partner said to you then you need to make a move. They try to feign ignorance and act as if your performance doesn’t affect them and you were not good at it.
9. They force you to give up what you did
Love is not about giving up. But if you are with someone who forces you to stay away from something or someone that you love then you should give THEM up.
10. They isolate you
If your partner is taking your loved ones away from you then they aren’t the right person for you. Make sure that your love relationship doesn’t affect your family relationship, at least not in a bad way.
11. Your friends questions them
Nobody knows you better than your friends and family. And if they think that you are being mistreated then listen to them. They are just trying to look after you.
12. You are the only one trying to make it work
It may be that your partner pursued you in the beginning but not anymore. What if you are the only one trying to make your relationship work? If he isn’t sincere about this relationship then it’s not even worth it, trust me.
13. It’s all about them
If they are talking only about themselves and not interested in your life then he is not the right man. A relationship is about two people standing at the same foot. It’s not about just one person.
14. They are never there for you
If you don’t have them beside you at the time of your need then think again about your relationship. Think again that whether this relationship even has a meaning to them or not. They don’t even care about you, then how the hell will you be able to spend your life with them. Think again!
15. They try and control you
There are two types of control freaks. One who manipulates your decisions with a tinge of flattery. The other types are those who simply go and make your choices for you. Don’t think it in a romantic or possessive way.
16. You are not good for each other.
If you both can accommodate well with each other then it’s a sign that something is not right. If you have too much difference of opinion then you need to either sort this out or move out.
Hope you will be able to save yourself from a toxic relationship. Share and comment below.