It’s hard to be away from someone you love the most in your life. It’s hard to manage a long-distance relationship and many of these long-distance relationships end in too early. That’s why couples generally avoid having a long-distance relationship.
But even if you prefer to be in one you need to make sure that you do the right things and say the right things in order to keep it going. Long-distance relationships generally involve insecurities and unnecessary fights and what not. And to avoid it you need to be very careful.
Let’s see what are the things that you should never say in a long-distance relationship.
1. “I miss you.”
When you have a person around you, you don’t care that much but when they are away from you, you suddenly start missing them. This is one of the most common things to say but still try and avoid it as it will make the long-distance relationship even more difficult.
2. “You’re missing out on so much.”
You are used to spending a lot of time with your partner, going to parties and dinners and long drives were a few things of your daily routine. And now that your partner is somewhere else will make it a little difficult for you. But reminding them that they are missing on all these things will make them feel guilty.
3. “I don’t have time right now.”
Time is the most precious thing that you can give to your partner. With you, both being apart may result in disturbed schedules and you work might not allow in having long conversations. So try to fix a time when you both can talk to each other as much as you want.
4. “It was your decision.”
To have a long-distance relationship is quite a tough decision that your partner has taken. It may be because of studies or job or family issues. Whatever it was, it was important enough that they chose it over you and at that time you must have supported them. So now all of sudden if you say this then it will mean that you’re blaming them for something that you have been supportive of once.
5. “We don’t have anything in common anymore.”
This will most definitely happen as with the place their friends, the hangout places, and even certain hobbies might change. But you don’t need to have everything common to be in a relationship. Just try and remain happy in what you have.
6. “Why are we even in a relationship?”
With all these changes and having nothing in common anymore might force you to think that why are you even in a relationship with that person. And you might want someone who is physically present around you. But this is not the time too part ways infact this is the time when your relationship is put to test.
7. “I can’t do this anymore.”
This is the breaking point when you start feeling that you can do this anymore. All these limited phone calls and text messages get to you. At this point, you need to remember the reason because of which your partner moved somewhere else. They are doing it for your future and you need to be supportive of them.
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