It’s one thing to get a girl to go out with you for the long-term, but it’s totally a different thing to keep her happy. Sometimes you may have a hard time figuring out what she wants.
If you are in a relationship and you want to make it work, it’s worth keeping some thought into the steps you could take to make life smoother for your partner.
Here are top 8 things you can work on to make your girlfriend happy.
1. Tell her that you love her
Simplicity is the best. Stick with “I Love You”, or you “make me so happy”. Â These statements make her feel good and they make her self-confidence soar. But make sure you mean it.
2. Put her first and yourself second
Put her needs in front of yours. This does not mean that you are weak. It just means that most of the times you are willing to bend for her even if it’s not something that you wanted to do. They say that love is selfless. Well, you’re going to have to prove her that. Show that you care for her and you want to be with her.
3. Plan a trip together
There are few people who don’t appreciate a break from work and some time in the sunshine, and your girlfriend is probably no exceptions. Whether you can afford to take a whole week off or just a long weekend. Planning a holiday is often every bit as fun as the main event.
4. Say sorry
Do not be very reluctant to say sorry if you have made a mistake or have hurt her in some way. Never say’, I am sorry that I hurt you’. This shows arrogance. Instead, say that you sorry and you should not have done so. An apology is the best perfume. So, never forget to say sorry.
5. Hugs and kisses does wonder
A lovely touch can work like magic. Greet her a warm affectionate hug when you meet her. A warm hug and passionate kisses can blossom relationships. A relationship needs to be nurtured and it is the small things that make a big difference. It is time now to give her the reason to fall in love all over again.
6. Be yourself
Do not pretend to be humorous, if you are not rather just be yourself. She will love you the way you are and not for some other reasons. She will easily see through your facade. You may not be good at cracking jokes but you may be romantic at heart. You will be loved the way you are.
7. Give her a heart connection
Your girlfriend needs to know that she is close to you and your heart. Heart moments are the intimate moments for your girlfriend. She wants to know how you feel. She wants you to share your emotions with her.
8. Space
Don’t smother your girlfriend. You want her to be excited each time she sees or hear from you. If you smother her, she may get overwhelmed which could ruin a good relationship. There is a time for everything. Help each other to be efficient, to spend relax quality time with each other.
Share it with your boy gang and your girlfriend and do drop your thoughts in the comment box below.