Relationships are very important as they help us keep sane. You need people around you all the time. You need people to talk to, to share things with, to have fun with. All these things can’t be done if you have nobody in your life. Your loved ones, your friends, your family are equally important as your boyfriend or girlfriend.
But it’s hard to manage relationships and to in order to keep all your relationships healthy and happy, you need to do certain things that you may or may not like. But still its good for your relationship.
Read ahead to know more.
1. Give them the same amount of love you would want to receive
How do you expect to be treated in your life by your loved ones? You just want love and respect from them. And in order to have that you’ll have to give them the same amount of love and respect.
2. Don’t try and change them
It will be really good if you become a little more open-minded and will start accepting people for how they are. Changing them will only make them not like you at all.
3. Be a good listener
When you are sad and upset you need someone to listen to you silently without saying anything. Other people around you want the same thing and you must do what you would want them to do. Be a good listener.
4. Never try to influence their decisions
Their life should have their own decisions. Don’t try and be their decision maker and don’t even try and influence their decisions otherwise, they will probably have other thoughts about you.
5. You’ll have to leave some important people behind
Everyone in your life comes with a purpose and when they are no longer needed in your life then you need to move away from them. You will have to take everything out of your heart and let hem go.
6. Give new people a chance
Make new friends trust them with your deepest darkest secrets. Everyone has a past and sharing it with a stranger might turn out to be an actually good decision.
7. Celebrate other people’s achievements and encourage them
Don’t be selfish be selfless at times. You must encourage people and also celebrate with them when they do good in their lives. Put yourself in a new light and for once try and be happy for others, you’ll feel great.
8. Be loyal to people you care about
Relations are pretty delicate but loyalty is what keeps them going. You must be loyal in all your relationships and they will work against all odds.
9. Don’t change yourself for anyone
If someone wants to be in your life then they will love you for what you are. If someone is trying to change you according to their comfort then you need to learn to move away from them.
10. Move away from people who have a negative influence on you
You don’t need negativity in your life. Enough of the negativity its time to elude some positive vibes and for that, you need to first throw out the negative people from your life.
11. Avoid making hurtful comments and gestures
Always remember that what goes around comes around. If you are hurting others then one of the coming days you will also be hurt by them.
12. Be your own favorite
If you expect love and respect from others then learn to love and respect yourself first. People will never give you what you don’t give yourself.
13. Don’t hold on to things
Holding on to the past or keeping grudges always brings you down. So it’s good to forgive and forget. It will help you in moving on faster in life.
14. Be kind and respectful
Be kind and respectful to everyone even if they are being rude to you. Atleast you’ll know that you did the right thing and it wasn’t you who ruined the relationship.
15. Make them feel special
Only you know that the other person is special in your life. They don’t know it but you need to tell them that they are pretty special to you. For that small gestures are enough. You don’t have to shout just make them feel special with small acts.
16. Avoid silly arguments
Silly arguments will turn into an intense fight and then cold war. And probably your relationship with that certain person may come to an end. So it’s good to avoid all the silly arguments and be polite to each other.
17. Always tell the truth
Truth always hurts but it still is important to say the truth. It makes your relations stronger and more promising.
18. Mean what you say
Never back down from your words. If you are making a promise then make sure that you fulfill it at all costs otherwise you’ll lose the trust of your people.
19. Realise your real friends and keep them at all costs
Instead of making just friends make some real friends. Real friends always help you out in life, in dealing with tough situations and making the right choices.
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