One bad relationship in your life and things change a lot. If a person has been through a toxic and abusive relationship then being in another relationship can prove to be a little bit challenging. The bad relationship often brings down your entire confidence level.
So after being in an abused relationship when a person enters into another relationship then there are a lot of things that change in their life. There are certain insecurities that make them act a certain way.
Read ahead to know more.
1. They need more reassurance
It’s hard to believe that a certain someone can love you so much. And that’s why you often ask them that whether they still like you or not.
2. Second thoughts are very frequent
We are always doubtful of things that happen in our lives. We can never be secure about things that are related to our partner or our relationship.
3. Small things trigger the past
Every small thing that happens in your life reminds you of your past. You are always comparing your present to your past.
4. They ask a lot of questions
It’s a habit you get. You tend to ask a lot of questions just so you can be very sure of all the things that are happening in your relationship with your partner.
5. They build a wall around themselves and it’s hard to break that wall
After being through a tough relationship people generally, build a safety wall around them in order to avoid getting hurt. And it’s quite a challenge to break that wall.
6. They prefer to express their love in other ways than sex
Sex becomes a big deal for them and when in a relationship they prefer to show their affection in other ways. Just so they can be very sure before giving in their desire.
7. They will often ask questions about all the people in your life
In order to know that they are safe with you, they will ask about all the people that you are associated with. They may judge your friends and family but do not judge them for that.
8. If you won’t reply to them soon then they will start overthinking
Try to give them instant replies as much as you can. Delayed replies can distract them and can make them think about certain possibilities. It can prove to be very unhealthy for you.
9. They tend to apologize for things they didn’t even do
They feel that their actions embarrass you and that’s why they will apologize frequently for their actions.
10. They will give their partner everything they have
Just to save their relationship they will give everything to their partner. Whether that person deserves it or not, doesn’t matter. All that matters is that they want to save their relationship.
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