Many young couples love to discuss future life which means they spend their lot of time in planning their marriage. Whether it be hardly the two months or years of dating each other. But couples forget to discuss the important things which are essential for them before planning their marriage.
Have a talk before getting married. Communication is very important but today’s generation doesn’t think like that. They don’t understand that there will be a lot of problems that will occur if they haven’t talked about things. Before getting married just ask your partner’s expectations. These things should be discussed before getting into the matrimonial ring.
These are the 8 things that should be discussed before getting into the matrimonial ring.
1. Money
Honey, the game is all about money. This is the biggest and most important things that married couples fight over. Just talk about money right away. Sometimes low bank budget can ruin your relationship, not everyone is same, not everyone will adjust with you. So, you should talk about your money problems as well. Decide whether you want to keep separate accounts or joint accounts.
2. Career
Another very important part is your career. Before you get married it’s better to talk about your career and expectations with your partner. Where do you see yourself in seven years or ten or even twenty years from now? How does your work affect the familial domain? Will both of you keep your jobs after you have kids? It is very important to talk on this matter.
3. Past Life
We should never deny our past. Discussing your past is extremely important. Our past has a goal in shaping the present and a terrifying capacity to influence our future. No matter how much pain you had felt in your past. Getting a clear cut off about one is coming from enables one to have a complete picture while looking back at the past and then it would become easy to move forward.
4. Family
Family plays a very important role in anyone’s life and every family is different from one another with their own terms and conditions. In Indian culture, we say that marriage is a tie up of two families. Ask yourself whether you can pick your family tradition or not? Whether you want to live in a joint family or not? These considerations are very important before saying “I do”.
5. Bucket List
6. Sex Life
A man’s sexual performance with his wife is an inseparable part of who he is. Like the woman has an emotional deal likewise man too have emotional deals. A man’s view of romance is somehow different from the women. Men and women are different in nature and other aspects. Their radical differences in approach to the romance set the stage for reaped clashes in marriage. Ask your partner about how you both will maintain your sexual life.
7. Clothing
We have seen money factor, family factor, kids factor and other factors above to ask your partner before getting married. But here clothing is also an important factor. Some girls love western wears while others love Indian wears. They will wear only those dresses which will make them feel comfortable. They will never compromise with their choice no matter what. So, it’s better to ask your partner whether his family will accept her in western clothes or not, or which type of clothing is loved by his family. And then ask yourself whether you will adjust yourself to your in-law’s terms and conditions.
8. Faith
Faith is important in any relationship, whether the relationship is that of a mother and a kid or husband and wife. First of all ask your partner whether he trust you or not, which things disappoint him and when he loose his temper. And if he has faith in you then ask whether this will remain same after marriage or not.
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