There are different categories of men who you might come across in your dating life. There are the cute and the shy ones, the delicate ones, the handsome hulk, the clingy creep and the most mischievous- the players. To understand and differentiate all men from player is a big deal. They are the ones, who will make you extremely happy but then after some time pass when they are content or preying someone else, they will start showing their real colors, it is better to know before hand, than realizing it late, when you have drowned in your emotions.
Look for these signs,
1. Wandering eyes
When you are with him on a date, his full attention should be on you. Once in a while it is OK to look at someone and come back to reality. But when you notice his eyes are always darting somewhere else, whenever a hot girl enters the room, please understand the sign.
2. Always about sex
The definition of your relationship should be love, care, trust but not sex. Sex should not be the base of your relation. Yeah, it is normal to have a relation where you are intimate and all, but is it always about that? If instead of talking about your relation, you always land on bed then take these signs. Just try some day to avoid sex, and see his reaction. If he is understanding and agrees… good. But if he throws a fit then start worrying about it.
3. No one knows that you exist
When you are in a relation the entire world knows about it, from your Facebook and Instagram account showing both of you together to your friends knowing all about your love story. But things are different when you date a guy, who just don’t want to be seen with you. Try to get this across, things are shady here, get the clue and run towards light.
4. Relationship & commitment are never his thing
Stop keeping those false expectation about your future with him. That is something never going to happen, if he keeps running from this conversation. He might just get agitated and avoid this topic every time. The long term goal is never their thing.
5. Phone is his priority
Are you ALLOWED to touch his phone? Just to see who gave a missed call or the text or just play a game. If no, then he is not as loyal as he seems. A person not showing his phone, but is always on his phone smiling, might get on your nerves. Seeing his phone and always smiling makes you mad and when you try to see his phone that makes him paranoid. What is going on in your relation? Trust issues is eating your relation.
6. Bail on you
A plan is made, he says he is busy. OK no problem. But then his Instagram and Snapchat is telling a different story altogether. So now this continues for days and now you are always being bailed and he is always enjoying and parting without you. Is this your relationship???
Having a relationship is good, having a healthy relationship with your partner is the best. Choose wisely.